White Man's Fantasy

She is considered to be sexy, sensual and as seductive as she is beautiful. She is known for her killer curves and has often been referred to as "the coke bottle" by male admirers everywhere..particularly white men whose advances are usually met with a resounding, yet polite no.

There is really not a man that she cannot get next to, if she really want to -- which makes her very ideal for wealthy white men who find her as their artistic muse. Additionally, simply worthy of the best.
Unfortunately, she often settles for less. If the man is abusive, condescending and possessive by nature, that is who she will go after as if she can "fix them".
Her romantic/relationship allegiance is "strictly for the brothers" which has come across as being the death of her career.
Who is she?